Teaching Our Children About Real Spiritual Realities: Truth Over Fiction
As parents, we have an immense responsibility to shape the worldview of our children. The culture around us often promotes fanciful tales like Santa Claus and the Elf on the Shelf—harmless fun to some, but I believe these stories can inadvertently distract from the deeper truths we are called to share with our children. The Bible warns us about the reality of evil and the spiritual battles taking place around us, but it also assures us of the victorious power of Christ Jesus.
Acknowledging the Reality of Darkness
The Bible doesn’t sugarcoat the existence of evil. It speaks of Satan prowling around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8). It describes the spiritual forces of darkness at work in the heavenly realms (Ephesians 6:12). These are not abstract concepts but real forces that affect the world we live in.
As parents, we need to lovingly teach our children about these truths, not to scare them but to prepare them. Ignorance leaves them vulnerable, but knowledge rooted in Scripture equips them to stand firm. They should understand that the sin, pain, and brokenness they see in the world stem from humanity’s fall and the influence of these dark powers.
The Overcoming Power of Christ
Here’s the good news: evil does not have the final say. Jesus Christ came into this world to destroy the works of the devil (1 John 3:8). Through His death and resurrection, He triumphed over sin, death, and Satan himself (Colossians 2:15). We can boldly teach our children that while darkness exists, we serve a God who has already won the ultimate victory.
When we give our lives to Christ, we are empowered by His Spirit to stand against evil. Ephesians 6 teaches us to put on the full armor of God, equipping us with truth, righteousness, faith, salvation, the Word of God, and prayer. These are not theoretical ideas but real, spiritual tools that we and our children can use in daily life.
Truth Over Fiction
In a culture that celebrates make-believe figures like Santa and the Elf on the Shelf, it’s easy for children to confuse what’s real with what’s not. While stories can have their place in entertainment, it’s crucial to prioritize the truth of God’s Word.
Rather than focusing on fictional characters who reward good behavior or monitor actions, let’s teach our children about the true and living God who sees all, loves unconditionally, and offers grace through faith in Jesus Christ. Instead of behavior-based rewards, they can understand the eternal gift of salvation—a gift that no one earns but is freely given to those who believe in Him.
Practical Ways to Teach Truth
1. Read the Word Together: Make Bible reading a family priority. Show your children what God says about good, evil, and His plan of redemption.
2. Pray for Discernment: Pray as a family for eyes to see and hearts to discern the truth in a world of spiritual battles.
3. Celebrate Christ-Centered Traditions: Instead of leaning into cultural tales, focus on Christ-centered traditions like Advent devotionals, serving others, and sharing the Gospel during the Christmas season.
4. Empower Them to Fight Spiritually: Teach your children how to pray, how to stand firm in their faith, and how to rely on God’s strength when faced with challenges.
In closing
As we raise our children, let’s not shy away from discussing the very real spiritual realities that exist in this world. By grounding them in the truth of Scripture, we prepare them to face life with faith, courage, and the unshakable hope found in Jesus Christ.
Let’s teach them to focus not on the temporary, feel-good tales of culture, but on the eternal victory of Christ—a truth that will sustain them far beyond childhood and into eternity.
