James 2:13 NASB
http://bible.com/100/jas.2.13.nasb
Your own family is not excluded from this. Forgive and show mercy to them as well. For the little things and the big things, show mercy. Don’t ruin a weekend or a lifetime over things that really don’t matter in light of eternity. You don’t deserve to have strife in the home and they don’t either. Forgive and let things pass, especially those little things that are just flippant actions that were not meant for hurt.